The nurse for today was the same as yesterday. I found out more about her. She is new to the day shift. She has not had to deal with family and doctors coming in at all times. She has only been doing day shift for about 2 weeks. Today, I would find my mom unattended, but everything fine. I probably walked in at the wrong times or something. But, to make myself feel better - I did speak with the head nurse. I didn't want to complain. (Mom is getting better. She is fine - and didn't seem uncomfortable today.) The ICU was busy, too. The ice at the beginning of the week brought a lot more people to the ICU. Even the waiting room was packed so we spent today on the second floor. I decided it was best, since I didn't have HUGE problems - to begin with compliments. I praised them for the care they have taken with Mom. I told her that we had been on the floor for 10 days. I asked if we could request nurses. She said no. So, I proceeded to name each nurse that we have enjoyed and why we enjoyed them. I even mentioned one that was snippy with me, but took excellent care of Mom and I thanked her for her excellent staff. Then I mentioned that the nurse we had today and yesterday was not our favorite. She asked for specifics and explained that they were busy and short one nurse today. I just reminded her of the nurses we loved and thanked her for her attention to my mom. This makes me feel better. Problem solved. New nurses will be on with us for the weekend.
Mom stayed the same for today. She could open her eyes, but only slightly. Her swelling was down some. Her ICP levels seemed to stay the same. Her internist said that they were not treating her for "Factor 5" yet because her brain was the biggest concern for now. They may begin treatment for "Factor 5" in about 2 weeks or so. They are making sure to check her for any visible blood clots. The doctors know exactly what they are doing. Mom is getting better.
It is too early to create a plan of care. We need to make it through next week.
For tonight - Heidi and my Mom's second cousin Karen House are staying at the hospital. Tomorrow, Ethan, Daddy and I will all be visiting her. I will stay at the hospital with Heidi tomorrow night. Heidi has decided to go back to Nashville on Sunday. She hates to leave Mom, but hopes to be back at the end of February. Since she is leaving on Sunday evening, she is spending as much time at the hospital with Mom now. While she is here - I will take more time with my family at home. This should be a quiet weekend. We don't expect to see her doctor again until Monday. I will update as I have news. Thank you so much for praying for my mom!
Amy,
ReplyDeleteSounds like you handled everything with great care and poise. I am so proud of you. Please tell Karen, I miss her and I am glad she is there to help out. It must be hard for Heidi to go back home, but she has done a great job.
Love and many prayers,
Aunt Cheryl